New mums: your body in the first week after birth
The first week after your baby’s birth is a time for you to care for and get to know your new baby.
You’ll have some vaginal bleeding and soreness around your vagina or caesarean wound. You might also have afterpains and nipple or breast tenderness. That’s why the first week or so after birth is also a time for you to rest and recover as much as you can.
Talk to your midwife, GP or obstetrician if pain is making it hard for you to rest, sleep or care for yourself or your baby. Your health professional can help you with pain relief medication. It’s also a good idea to ask any other questions you have about yourself or your baby.
You’ll have some vaginal bleeding. This starts straight after birth and lasts for 4-6 weeks. The bleeding usually eases off over the first weeks and changes from bright red to red-brown.
You’ll need to use pads and change them regularly. You might prefer to use maternity pads at first – these are larger and longer than regular pads. The bleeding might increase for a short time when you’re breastfeeding or walking.
If your perineum feels hot or becomes more swollen, or if there’s a bad smell associated with vaginal bleeding, check with your midwife or doctor. These changes can be a sign of infection.
Pain after vaginal birth
You might be sore after a vaginal birth. This is because the muscles and nerves around your perineum have been stretched and bruised.
There are several things you can try to help with pain, swelling and bruising of your perineum:
- Put ice packs or cold gel packs on the area for 10-20 minutes.
- Lie on your side and do some pelvic floor exercises.
- Take some paracetamol or other mild pain relief.
- Keep the area clean by showering or bathing daily.
- Gently pat the area dry with a soft towel or cloth after each wash.
If it hurts to urinate, tell your doctor or midwife. This might be caused by grazes on your perineum. You could try pouring a cup of warm water over your genitals when you urinate. A urinary alkaliniser (for example, Ural) can also help.
If you have stitches to repair a tear or an episiotomy, these will dissolve gradually 1-2 weeks after the birth.
Pain after caesarean birth
After a caesarean birth, you’ll have a surgical wound in the lower part of your tummy. It’s normal for the wound to be sore.
It can help to support your wound with pillows under your knees when lying on your back, or under your tummy when lying on your side. When you sit up from a lying position, roll onto your side and use your arms to raise your upper body from the mattress.
Your midwife or doctor will tell you to limit vigorous exercise and activity after a caesarean birth. It’s best to avoid tasks that involve lifting, carrying and driving in the first few weeks. You can ask your friends and family to help you with these jobs.
A gentle walk each day can help your body heal. You should also get as much sleep and rest as you can.
Loose-fitting clothing and cotton underwear with a high waist will probably be more comfortable on your wound than bikini underwear.
The size of a caesarean scar is different for each woman, but your wound will appear smaller in the first few weeks after birth as the bruising and swelling settles down.
Afterpains are short cramps caused by your uterus contracting to get smaller and control bleeding. You might get afterpains while you’re breastfeeding because the hormones released when you breastfeed also make the uterus contract. This helps your uterus to get smaller and get back to how it was before you were pregnant.
Afterpains are uncomfortable and can last a couple of days. Warm packs on your tummy or your back can help.
Afterpains are more common in women who have given birth before, but you can have them after your first birth too.
Breast and nipple soreness
You can expect sore nipples and tender breasts in the first week as your milk comes in and you and your baby learn to breastfeed.
The most common reason for soreness is your baby not attaching properly to your breast. With good attachment, this will usually settle down. Ask for help from your midwife, child and family health nurse or lactation consultant if you’re not sure, or you’re very sore.
Here are some other things you can do to help with breast and nipple tenderness:
- Put some cool packs on your breasts – even a frozen damp cloth can help between feeds. A warm cloth during feeds will encourage milk flow.
- Try gently massaging full breasts.
- Express a few drops of your milk at the end of each feed and spread it over your nipples. This can soothe sore nipples and help them to heal.
- Try putting a small amount of cream on your nipples. Use one that’s specially made for breastfeeding.
If your breast and nipple soreness doesn’t get better each day, you can talk to a midwife or your child and family health nurse. An Australian Breastfeeding Association (ABA) counsellor can also help – phone the National Breastfeeding Helpline on 1800 686 268.
Your health and your baby’s health will be reviewed at a six-week check-up with your midwife, child and family health nurse, obstetrician or GP. This is a chance for you to ask about any physical or emotional changes that are worrying you.
Urinary and bowel incontinence in the first few months after birth
In the early months after birth, you might find that you accidentally urinate or have accidental bowel motions, especially when you laugh, cough or sneeze.
This will usually fix itself as your swelling goes down, sensation comes back and muscles get stronger. Pelvic floor exercises to strengthen your muscles can help.
If you’re still having problems with incontinence when your baby is six weeks old or older, talk to your GP, who will be able to help or send you to a women’s health physiotherapist or continence specialist. There are many treatments that can help.
Weight in the first few months
Weight loss normally happens gradually after birth. Healthy eating and gentle exercise like walking can help with losing weight. Breastfeeding can help too.
If you were overweight before you got pregnant and you would like to lose weight, talk with your health professional. If you’re losing too much weight and are underweight, it’s also a good idea to talk with your health professional.
Hair in the first few months
You might lose some hair from your head in the months after giving birth. This won’t last and should settle down when your baby is about six months old.
It happens because of changing hormone levels in your body. Hair loss isn’t caused by breastfeeding, so weaning your baby won’t help.
You might have stretch marks on your tummy, hips and breasts during pregnancy. After the birth, the marks usually change, fading from a red to a silvery colour and getting smaller. Some women try to reduce stretch marks with laser therapy and retinol creams.
Your relationship in the early months of parenthood
If you have a partner, becoming parents is a big change for the two of you. Some couples find a deeper connection, but others need time to adjust to being parents.
Your feelings about sex and intimacy can depend on many things – your birth experience, pain, tiredness, the demands of caring for your baby and how you feel about your body after pregnancy and birth.
It can really help to share experiences and ideas. You could try connecting with other new mums by going to a mothers group
. If you’re not sure where to find one, ask your child and family health nurse.